Steps to Take:
• Plan proactively Sit down as a family
-- if possible, before your parents even require care -- to discuss
with your parents their wishes for care.
• Take it a step further
with a caregiver contract Spell out on paper who is doing what, who is paying for
what, who will fill in for the caregiver(s) when he/she/they need
a break, and how the caregiver(s) will be financially compensated.
More and more families are sitting down with their elder law attorney
to draft such agreements. It makes sense --and saves on a lot of
grief, money and argument -- to deal with the issues before they
erupt into crisis.
• Set up a trust for
the caregiver The
trust can provide the trustee with the authority to manage elderly
parents' finances and assets and even avoid probate.
• Use the parents' home
as financial "collateral" for
the caregiver The parents' will or trust can provide that the caregiver
receives a gift of the home outright or a certain portion of the
proceeds from the sale of the home.
• Provide for the caregiver
in a will Another way to compensate the caregiver is to include a provision
in a will requiring a lump-sum payment of money to be distributed
to the caregiver upon the second parents' death.
• Consider long-term
care insurance Long-term
care insurance provides a monthly payment from the insurance carrier
of a predetermined amount toward the cost of in-home, assisted-living
and nursing-home expenses.
• Tap Veterans Administration
and pension payment benefits to cover costs If either parent served in a world
war, they may be entitled to receive VA pension benefits to help
offset some of the costs of long-term care.
• Know your rights Under the Family and
Medical Leave Act, covered employers must provide eligible employees
with up to 12 weeks of unpaid leave during any 12-month period
to care for an immediate family member with a serious health condition.
• Tap the Child and Dependent
Care tax credit This credit may be worth up to $3,000 for one dependent
or $6,000 for two or more dependents to individuals who qualify.
• Tap the help of support
groups and organizations West Michigan has a bounty of wonderful groups that
assist caregivers. A good starting place: the Caregiver
Resource Network.
• Order the "Long-Term Care Planning
Tool Kit" created
by the U.S. Department of Health and Human Resources by calling 1-866-PLAN-LT.
• Meet with your elder
law attorney and get your plan together Many people put off planning for long-term care.
However, the best way to maintain family harmony and keep conflicts
and financial hardships to a minimum is to sit down with family
members and discuss the above options with your elder law attorney.
He or she should be able to help you decide which of the above
tools will help you best.
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